Weddings - Tom Ham's Lighthouse

Wed in Bliss on the Bay at Tom Ham’s Lighthouse

Located on San Diego’s scenic Harbor Island, Tom Ham’s Lighthouse is a notable waterfront dining destination. Known for fresh seafood, classic cocktails, and sweeping views of the San Diego Bay and skyline, our restaurant has been a local staple for decades. Join us for dinner, weekend brunch, or a special occasion by reserving your table today!

Our Event Spaces

Our flexible event spaces allow you to host each part of your wedding day in one location — from ceremony to cocktail hour to reception.

Ceremony Site

Seating Capacity – Up to 230 guests

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Ceremony Site features a unique metal sculptural arch framing the San Diego downtown skyline, bay and beautiful landscape. With easy access into the restaurant and banquet rooms for your guests. The ceremony site can hold up to 230 guests. *Capacity may vary on the type of function.

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California Room

Seating Capacity – Up to 230 guests

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The California Room is surrounded by windows and is complemented by an unforgettable panoramic view of the San Diego Bay and the Downtown skyline. This room includes a built-in bar and a private wrap around patio over the bay for you and your guests to enjoy. *Capacity may vary on the type of function

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Harbor View Room

Seating Capacity – Up to 80 guests

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The Harbor View Room has large bay windows that highlight our remarkable scenic view of the San Diego Bay and the Downtown skyline. This room includes a built-in bar and private patio that is set directly over the bay with the perfect backdrop. *Capacity may vary on the type of function

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“All of our guests remarked how fantastic the food was, most saying it rivaled the best they’d ever had for a wedding. On top of that, the drinks were great, the staff was very attentive, and of course, the views were spectacular. If you’re considering having your ceremony and/or reception at Tom Ham’s, don’t think twice!” 

-Haley

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Intentionally Crafted Menus

Our culinary team works closely with couples to create menus that highlight fresh seafood, seasonal ingredients, and California-inspired cuisine. From plated dinners to passed appetizers and custom bar packages, every menu is designed with quality and consistency in mind.

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Free Parking

Free self-parking located in front of the restaurant for dining and event guests. Ride share options are also readily available on Harbor Island.

San Diego Airport

Just a five minute drive from the San Diego International airport.

Close Hotels

Four hotels located on Harbor Island all within a half mile of Tom Hams. Event hosts may be eligible for special group room rates for out of town guests.

Wedding Contact Form

Our event and banquet team would be happy to provide pricing and availability for your special day! Please use the form below to receive packages and more information.