Social Events - Tom Ham's Lighthouse

Unforgettable Gatherings at Tom Ham’s Lighthouse

Host your next social gathering at Tom Ham’s Lighthouse, where panoramic views of San Diego Bay and the downtown skyline set the stage. Whether you’re planning a birthday, anniversary, rehearsal dinner, holiday party, or other social event, our waterfront venue offers memorable settings and thoughtful service to make your celebration special.

Our Event Spaces

Our versatile event spaces accommodate a range of group sizes and event styles. From intimate gatherings to larger celebrations, each space provides scenic views, flexible layouts, and attentive support to help your event run smoothly.

California Room

Seating Capacity – Up to 230 guests

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The California Room is surrounded by windows and is complemented by an unforgettable panoramic view of the San Diego Bay and the Downtown skyline. This room includes a built-in bar and a private wrap around patio over the bay for you and your guests to enjoy. *Capacity may vary on the type of function

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Harbor View Room

Seating Capacity – Up to 80 guests

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The Harbor View Room has large bay windows that highlight our remarkable scenic view of the San Diego Bay and the Downtown skyline. This room includes a built-in bar and private patio that is set directly over the bay with the perfect backdrop. *Capacity may vary on the type of function

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Private Dining Room

Seating Capacity – Up to 36 guests

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The Private Dining Room is located on the 2nd floor, just off the main dining room. This space is perfect for groups of 15 to 36 looking to hold a small, intimate lunch or dinner gathering. *Capacity may vary on the type of function

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“Some of the best food I’ve had here in San Diego, the views are unmatched and the food even better. While I would recommend this spot more for a regular visit if you can afford it. I would definitely recommend this spot to anyone looking for a nice dinner, date or celebration. Everything that I’ve had and all of the foods my friends have had are delicious. I’ve heard no bad comments from anyone. Definitely a spot worth checking out! ” 

-Ralph

Custom Menus & Beverage Options

Our culinary team can design menus tailored to your event, from plated dinners and buffet options to passed hors d’oeuvres and specialty beverage packages. Menus highlight fresh, seasonal ingredients and are crafted with quality and presentation in mind.

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Free Parking

Free self-parking located in front of the restaurant for dining and event guests. Ride share options are also readily available on Harbor Island.

San Diego Airport

Just a five minute drive from the San Diego International airport.

Close Hotels

Four hotels located on Harbor Island all within a half mile of Tom Hams. Event hosts may be eligible for special group room rates for out of town guests.

Event Contact Form

Ready to bring your social event to the bay? Contact our events team to check availability, discuss options, and begin planning.