History of Tom Ham
Tom Ham loved adventure. A renowned amateur historian and UCLA graduate, he came to San Diego in 1955 to build his dream. After turning Bali Hai, a struggling Shelter Island restaurant at the time, into a vibrant success, he turned his passion for great experiences toward a new venture: the Lighthouse.
Our Story
Over the Years
It all began with a walk along Shelter Island. Tom foresaw a booming future for San Diego and envisioned a restaurant fit to savor the view for years to come.
1955
Tom Ham Arrives in San Diego
Fresh out of UCLA he rescues Bali Hai, a Shelter Island restaurant struggling to make ends meet, and turns it into a success
1969
San Diego’s 200th Anniversary
Tom served as chairman for San Diego’s 200th Anniversary celebration.
1971
Tom Ham’s Lighthouse Opens
Vision became reality with the opening of Tom Ham’s Lighthouse. Drawing guests from across the region, the restaurant combined great food with sweeping waterfront views and lively entertainment.
1973
Passing the Torch
The family carries on the business after Tom Ham’s passing. Still today, Suzie, his daughter, serves as CEO with Tom’s grandsons serving as general managers.
2014
The restaurant undergoes a complete renovation led by late architect Graham Downes. This project honored Tom Ham’s original vision while updating the space for modern dining needs.
2026
Celebrating 55 Years
Celebrate 55 years with us! To mark the milestone, we are hosting a special events, anniversary features, and celebrations. Learn more →
USCG LIGHTHOUSE
Beacon #9
Now one of San Diego’s most recognized architectural landmarks, Tom’s legacy lives on. Today, his children run the restaurant and pursue Tom’s vision of capturing the California spirit with excellent dining, exceptional service, and unforgettable experiences.
DINING ROOM HOURS
MON – THUR
Lunch 11:30am – 3:00pm
Dinner 5:00pm – 9:00pm
FRI & SAT
Lunch 11:30am – 3:00pm
Dinner 5:00pm – 10:00pm
SUNDAY
Brunch 9:30am – 2:00pm
Dinner 4:00pm – 9:00pm
JOIN US AT THE BAR
MON – THUR
11:30am – 9:00pm
FRI & SAT
11:30am – 10:00pm
SUNDAY
9:30am – 9:00pm
HAPPY HOUR
Mon-Fri 3pm – 6pm